Friendship

In the life of every human being, there are some simple things but it can stick with us throughout this life, things that are so valuable, worthy of respect. And so is friendship, true friendships can help us have more faith in life, to share the difficulties and failures of life and will pull us back whenever we get lost. 

It’s true to say that throughout the our life, we have a lot of friends, but a true friendship is not the thing that everyone can easily have. So what is fiendship? Friendship is a realationship between two or many people who hold mutual affection for each other; who have friendly disposition or feeling for another; and is the bond of friends.

There are many expression for a true friendship. A friend is the one who is close to us, who sympathize and share with us. Being a friends is to believe in each other. Every actions and gestures always show goodwill and love for each other cordially; hoping for good things will come to the other. True friends are those who always listens when we have troubles, always be with us no matter how bad things are and always help us overcome difficulties. It true that only friends are those who we can share our lives together. Whenever we have friends beside we will feel very safe, also very relieved. Whenever we make mistakes, friends will stop us and help us to correct the faults. Being with our friends, happiness will become much bigger, and sadness will be relieved. 

When life seems to have no meaning, everything around is just a dark color, true friends will stay with us no matter what happens

and show us the light is at the end of the road. The value of friendship becomes greater when we almost be hopeless, our friends are here to lift us up. Besides family, love, true friendship is a solid moral support for each of us in our life. Being with our friends, happiness will become much bigger, and sadness will be relieved. If the hard life make our dreams, our believes become wither, the appearance of a friend is always a great medicine for us. When you treat someone like a true friend, we will again receive the sincere friendship from that person.

However, in life, there are times that we could have conflicts with our friends. There are many reasons that conflict may arise between you and your friend. Common examples are jealousy, poor communication skills, lack of consideration or respect, different principles or outlooks on life and one friend contributing more to the relationship than the other. Arguments or conflict may result from experiencing a bad day or other issues that have nothing to do with the actual friendship. As a result, fluctuating emotions and hormones can lead to angry exchanges. The stress that results from conflict with a friend can negatively affect you physically and emotionally. Other side effects of conflict for all age groups are anxiety, depression, difficulty with other interpersonal relationships and loss of the friendship. It is important to move past conflict so that your friendship can continue.

So what should we do to maitain a friendship? In order to have a long-lasting friendship, we shouldn’t just receive but also give. True friendship cannot exist if we just giving or only receiving. Each of us should love and care about our friends like what we do to ourselves. Let’s love and share with our friends, forgive mistakes and help them to repair the faults, learn to accept others’ weaknesses. Friendship sometimes is just a small care, but the cherished is the hearts of both the donor and recipient. Just give away without waiting for receiving. Give love from the heart, not for-profit plot, not of rational reckoning.