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My dad was more of a friend to me then a dad which I loved when I was growing up. I enjoyed having a friend that would let me do whatever I asked. My dad would buy me cigarettes, alcohol, marijuana, or anything else I might have wanted. The worst part was I thought that by him doing these things made him a good dad but I was very wrong.

Growing up I was always a daddy's girl but that changed when I had my daughter and my mom is now my best friend.

When I was a teen and my mom had grounded me all I had to do was ask my dad and I got what I wanted. A lot of the time my dad would go with me and I would do whatever I felt like doing. If I wanted to stay the night somewhere my mom didn't want me to stay my dad would help me find a way to sneak out. My dad taught me how to drive with a beer in-between my legs. So basically he never taught me right from wrong he taught me that I could do whatever I wanted and get away with it. I would say it was like having an older brother not a dad. I did have a great father figure in my life though and it was my step grandpa.

As a teen I always disliked my mom and I thought she was so mean because she stuck to certain rules and would not budge on them. One rule I really hated was I could not go to chat rooms but I did anyway and she would always find out. I would chat to any and every one I would even get phone numbers to call random people which were mainly guys but I saw nothing wrong with this. I even would meet people if they lived close enough once I went and picked a girl up and went to a college party. That is not the worst thing I did though I went to a chat room and someone was asking if anyone in Indiana need a job so I responded. They asked for all my personal information and I gave it to them they wanted to send me a check and I was to cash it and Money Gram all the money but $500 back to them. I was 17 at the time and thought if I just kept all the money they wouldn't be able to do anything about it. Well they had my address and phone number they called and left threating messages saying they would come to my home and kill me if I didn't send them the money. Thank goodness we were in the process of moving and nothing ended up happening to my family. The people that sent the check ended up putting a stop payment on the check and I had to pay the money back. I now realize how important my mom's rules really were.

The other big rule was no lying and I couldn't agree more with that now that I have two step sons and a daughter. I never knew the importance of telling the truth until my kids started lying about things. I would lie about the stupidest things, things that really didn't matter and my kids do this also. I find it very hard to believe anything that comes out of my step son's mouth anymore because they have made things very difficult for us with their mother.

I would say that having a child of